December 6, 2018 — Leave a comment

Rules: 15 Questions 15 People

I was tagged by the kind and lovely @literaturethebestfriend​

I tag: @fuckitimfangirling​ @leianaberrie​ @captainimfangirling​ @battlships​ @leidi-bonny-zivah​ @entwinedloop​ @thehedgerider​ and anyone else

1. Are you named after anyone?

  • No, my mom picked my name out of a name book seeing if it sounded good with the middle name she had picked out because my original name was stolen by my cousin.

2. When was the last time you cried?

  • Honestly I can’t remember but I can tell you the last time I cried really hard was at my cousin’s funeral in April.

3. Do you have kids?

  • Nope.

4. Do you use sarcasm a lot?

  • Yes and my voice is kind of monotone so a lot of the time, unless you’ve been around me, people think I’m being serious.

5. What’s the first thing you notice about people?

  • How they look after that based on demeanor I do make judgement but non that really stick after talking to them. The only exception to this was this stoner kid I met a a party, he lived up to every expectation that I had to laugh.

6. What’s your eye color?

  • Dark brown.

7. Scary movie or happy ending?

  • Happy ending, scary movies aren’t really my genre.

8. Any special talents?

  • I can light my mouth on fire. It’s a great party trick especially around drunk people.

9. Where were you born?

  • California

10. What are your hobbies?

  • Fanfiction, reading and writing.

11. Do you have any pets?

  • No

12. What sports do you play/have you played?

  • I did gymnastics and cheer leading as a kid, but as an adult none.

13. How tall are you?

  • 5′6″

14. Favorite subject in school?

  • Chemistry and drama

15. Dream job? Realistic dream job?

  • Dream Job: Entrepreneur
  • Realistic Dream Job: Flight attendant, you get to travel the world and get paid doing it.

Do you think any of her “friends” actually cared about Bonnie? I saw mentioned that Kai is the only one who made effort to apologize to her. From what I recall, the Mystic Falls gang treated her like a magical fix it and nothing more. Nobody ever really rallied for her like they would for Elena or Caroline in danger. Their group wouldn’t survive five minutes of Bonnie up and left town to start her own life

December 6, 2018 — Leave a comment

scorpio-karma:

I think they thought they actually cared about her, but never actually did because when you do you don’t ignore their pain and suffering like that. I think their heads were so far up their own ass, and that they were so used to Bonnie solving it for them that their privilege didn’t allow them to think about her side of things. They only had half-ass comment here and there about her well being but none of that matters unless they actually do anything. Bonnie did things, she was a loyal and good best friend which is funny because you never really hear about that from the characters on the show, but they’ll go on and on about what a good person Elena is despite her never showing those traits, what a great person Caroline is despite her compliance and ability to bend her morals for her friends. Bonnie gets none of that she just gets called judgemental which is a criticism that honesty fits Caroline more but I never see her called, I consistently only see this in reference to black women.

Basically racism was so ingrained in the show and, subsequently, the characters that their version of caring is pretty much the equivalent of a child’s love for their black nanny in every “happy slave” piece of media. They care about her, but only in reference to what they can do for them but TVD’s worse because a child is actually ignorant and can learn, the MFG can’t and as shown by the end of the series, never can learn better.