Cognitive Dissonance Is A Real Thing In Fandoms

thehedgerider:

Jesus Christ this Bamon vs Bonenzo shit is dumb as hell.

“Enzo’s only with Bonnie because he can’t have Caroline or Lily.”

“If Damon gets with Bonnie then she’s just a second choice to Elena.”

Or my personal favorite:

“Enzo pistol whipped and talked down to Bonnie”

Do we need to go through the laundry list of things that Damon has done to Bonnie up to and including writing her a Dear Jane letter and abandoning her for 3 years? Has he ever produced a genuine apology for any of it?

How about:

“Damon and Bonnie had 4 months in the PW to build their friendship.”

It would appear that Bonnie and Enzo had 3 years in a cabin. And that’s the thing…we don’t know what all is going on with those two or how it happened YET. All this vitriol over eps that haven’t aired seems a wee bit premature.

Bottom line: This is all relative. Everybody on this show has Mistreating Bonnie receipts (some are longer that others) So one ship isn’t better than the other in the grand scheme of things. If you don’t like Bamon, then don’t ship it and stay out of the tags. If you don’t like Bonenzo, then don’t ship it and stay out of the tags. Bamon is my OTP but I do multiship Bonnie so I know how many times folks have come around to shit on Bamon…so why would any of us turn around and do that to someone else??

And I am acknowledging my own hypocrisy in saying everything above while fully intending to continue to shit on Beremy. Because Beremy was bad for humanity at large. Know who the real enemy is people!!

And yes I’m tagging all my BB ships because it applies. Fight me.

HELP IM WRITING AN ESSAY ON RACISM IN TVD DUE TMRW,,, explain the “magical negro” trope to me and its implications ??? all bonkamily feel free to add!!!!

kingcobrakai1972:

i’ve gotten a handful of troll anons recently, so i’m not sure how serious this ask is, (if it is i’m sorry), but i’ll post it and see i anyone wants to link to any metas on this.

there are POC in the bonkai fandom that could explain this better than me/ have explained it

Magic Negro: A black character who exist only to further white characters development. They seemingly have no other life or objective other than to serve this white character.

They might want to look up “Happy Slave” an “Mammy” as well.

  • Happy Slave: Most notable by the movie Songs From the South one of Disney’s most offensive film which featured this trope. It’s self explanitory but it feature character in positions of forced servitude that not only seem like their happy about their position but are voluntarily in this position. While this applies to Bonnie, it’s most notable with Emily when they call her Katherine’s “Handmaiden”. Civil War Era Virginia, that’s no handmaiden. It also can apply to Beau the mute heretic who followed Lily with a devotion and obligation none of the other Heretics had.
  • Mammy:

    amiable, loyal, maternal, non-threatening, obedient, and submissive. The mammy figure demonstrated deference to white authority. On occasion, the mammy was also depicted as a sassy woman. She was devoted to her owners/employers and her primary goal in life was to care for their needs. Some portrayals had the mammy have a family of her own. But her caregiving duties would always come first, leading to the mammy being portrayed as a neglectful parent or grandparents. an asexual figure, “devoid of any personal desires that might tempt her to sin”. This helped the mammy serve as both a confidant and a moral guide to her young charges, capable of keeping them in line. Her personal attributes include infinite patience, self-deprecating wit, an implicit understanding and acceptance of her own inferiority, and her devotion to whites. This is Bonnie to a T, with her “loyaly” and willingness to sacrifice her self for other’s with little to no care about her life. And her love life, she always been short changed in that department and we all know that ships are currency on TVD. For all intents and purposes she was asexual.

Here are some Links I reference often:

If they’re actually serious about this I suggest they look into it on their own. I spent a good portion of time years ago and still do today researching it and it all started with a simple google search of vampire diaries racism. That led me to a lot of things on the subject most of which aren’t listed because I don’t have the time, but they aren’t that hard to find. 

fictionxlover:

After reading that it seems plague said that to save her own ass because she said something before about Bonnie never moving on. But it’s such bs. Saying Bon can never really move on cuz of her ultimate soulmate (that ship was rip off of DE only reason why she goes hard for it and Enzo was irrelevant. Their love story not even epic).

Elena had two epic loves: Stefan and Damon…and Elena chilling with Damon atm I guess

Caroline had Klaus, Stefan, Tyler and I assume she will move on one day.

She makes 0 sense.

In her defense, there has never been an “epic” ship in canon, so it was impossible for Bonnie to have an epic romance written for her.

However the issue has always been that ships are currency on the show and Bonnie has always been short changed, and Plec has always wanted to give her less because she needed to get across the point that she’s less than [insert white girl].

luanahensi:

Fans of Nina Dobrev saying that Kat Graham imitated her haircut. I didn’t know Nina was the first woman in the world to wear short-haired bangs. And I also didn’t know that after Miss Dobrev used that cut, no one else could use it. Kkkkkkk

bonkai-diaries:

Plec is such a moron 😂

Oh Dear Lord this is recent too. 🤮

Moron doesn’t even scratch the surface of what she is, this is just plain delusional. A) she clearly doesn’t remember the character she created, b) why would anyone care if a fictional character who lacked a basic moral system would approve of anything, and c) Legacies is obviously not going as well as she’d like if she’s using Damon as a shameless plug for her show.