Anti Bonkai fans be like
Blah blah blah I don’t want Bonnie to be with someone who gave her PTSD, and “tortured” her, and then they see themselves as Bonnie heroes or heroines.
Uh no just no. Where the fuck were you when Damon hurt Bonnie?
Oh but Damon didn’t give her PTSD. Is what they say.
So what hurting someone isn’t as bad, as long as they don’t get PTSD?
Where the fuck were you when Enzo hurt her.
Where the fuck were you when Klaus hurt her?
Where the fuck were you when her friends hurt her by having her sacrifice for them and not thanking her for it, heck even putting her family members at risk?
Where the fuck were you when Bonnie gets hurt because her friends use her?
Where the fuck where you when Bonnie’s grams and dad died and overall her friends didn’t care, cos when Bonnie’s dad died Elena’s feelings where more important?
How dare you come in and pretend to be a hero or heroine.
I’ll say it again where the fuck were you?
That’s right nowhere to be found, cos the pain that Bonnie went through only counts if she got PTSD from it.
At least Kai bothered to apologise unlike her other so called friends.
hello, it is I. I ship Bonnie w literally everyone and I hate it bc she deserves better than all the guys on this show combined.
I was wondering if you could tell me when Enzo hurt Bonnie? Not being spiteful or anything, just genuinely curious bc I’m th BIGGEST (and probably only) Bonenzo shipper.
When Enzo pistol whipped Bonnie’s face????????
Also when Enzo kidnapped and threatened Bonnie and Jeremy. When Enzo kidnapped and stowed her away in a cabin AGAINST her will. Giving her those pills from the Armoury – pills that he didn’t even know what they were and it was killing her slowly and painfully plus it resulted in losing her magic. Like come on people…also I would count that whole cabin nonsense of 3 years as a form of mental/emotional abuse since she was in total isolation aside from being with her captor. That’s fucked up no matter how you look at it.
Wow I did not know that. You’re right Charskiis why isn’t anyone complaining about the THREE years of mental/emotional/physical abuse Enzo was putting Bonnie through. Yet complain about Kai, who put her through like what a week or less of it.
What Kai did was wrong obviously, but why is he the only one they complain about?
What makes Enzo kidnapping Bonnie so much worse to me is how methodical it was. It’s established basically up until that point Enzo had no feelings for Bonnie and vice versa prior to him kidnapping her which made it so random. However the one feeling he did have was jealousy that Damon had incited so much loyalty in Bonnie. How did Damon get her loyalty? He was isolated with her and only her for four months. Now add that up with Enzo kidnapping Bonnie and keeping her in a cabin isolated from any civilization for years (still not quite sure how long until she checked into the mental hospital) with only him as her company (which was not true for him).
That was a very very familiar situation for her that he was 100% aware of. He basically played on one if her greatest vulnerabilities, loneliness, and used it to his advantage and it worked. Their relationship plays basically what I can only describe as Stockholm Syndrome which makes so much sense when you add all the facts together.
Although on the bright side all of this proves that if Bonnie had spent enough time with Kai isolated in the prison world she definitely could/would have fallen for him and definitely forgiven him.


