masterabsalom:

I understand that Chris Wood is hot, he is hot – that’s a fact, but…

Kai Parker harassed and abused Bonnie numerous times, almost killed her and there’s even an episode (6×16) in which we see Bonnie dealing with traumatic experience he gave her,

so please, stop shipping them!

This PSA has been brought to you by some dumbass on tumblr.

Not only are they in the wrong tags but they actually think their saying something of value.

Go home sweetie, this is not the fight you want to start because it’s one you’ll lose by default of being in the Bonkai tag.

Who do you think would be on top kai or bonnie and do you think that kai would be nervous about their first time ?

bonwhynot:

I think they’ll generally take turns (switch), but Kai is probably more often on top. Despite his flippant and childish behavior at times, he seems very dominant. Also he seems like he would be open minded when it comes to matters of the bedroom and he’s so thoroughly in love/feels with and turned on by Bonnie that he’d probably try anything as long as he’s with her and she’s enjoying herself.

I think Kai would be nervous at first because it’ll be with Bonnie. Whether he really was a virgin or just celibate for 18 years, he’s still going to be rusty about sex. He would likely pass off his nerves about it by cracking awkward jokes or babbling on in the act and Bonnie would just stare at him or try to ignore him since she can see right through and can tell he’s just nervous. Imagine similar to how he was stammering in that club when he was trying to apologize to Bonnie. Something along those lines.

I always imagined Bonnie on top more, not because he seems less dominant but because he would enjoy the view more. I also imagine him hitting it from the back a lot because that would be aesthetically pleasing to him as well (dat ass). Kai to me seems like he’d spend a lot of time admiring and taking in how Bonnie looks it would overwhelm him–like he could get off just watching her please herself.

That’s my take on Bonkai sex.

Alright wish me luck

I’m continuing my rewatch of TVD from a year ago. I’ve forgotten so much from the earlier seasons especially S3 due to the fact that at the time my DVR didn’t record a lot of episodes and I’ve never had the drive to try and watch them. Plus this will make finishing that survey a lot easier.

But dear Lord wish me luck because last time I couldn’t make it past 2×12. The show is so bad, Elena is so bad, Damon is actually tolerable at this point, Stefan was getting more interesting from being the boring straight man character but I can’t wait for season 3 when he really stops being that boring character from season 1.

Highlights: Caroline and Tyler are adorable but I know S3 is going to ruin that. Bonnie in a semi love triangle with Luka and Jeremy which will get ruined later that season because she choses Jeremy who basically badgered her into a relationship and Luka turns out to be just another scum bag using her.

I really don’t know how I’m going to make it though this, even the highlights are horrible.

Edit: I didn’t even make it to episode 12. That was the episode I needed to watch next. I really don’t have much hope for getting through this but hopefully I make to season 3.

Update: Review of the episode

Update 2: Review of the next episode

Bonnie Bennett Survey Results

So, what’s going on almost a year ago I made this post and I know some of you including myself are getting impatient so I’m posting this. You guys can view your responses and others. 

Survey Results here: Just say “yes” and submit

I’m still going to make a post about the results and why I asked those questions as it’s not the full results. I had two different focus groups for the survey and those comparisons will eventually when I finish tallying and analyzing your results and theirs.